Update 12/11: I haven't made out my Christmas cards yet, but will soon. I'd like to cut my list by more than half -- down from over 30 to a dozen or so-- although I've said this before and have failed. I usually find that after a couple of hours into doing my cards, I tend to get whipped up into a sentimental state and want to write to everybody I even halfway like, whether I've heard from them in recent years or not. And how do I track that? By an elaborate system you would not believe... I also track which card design I send to each person each year, who wrote to whom first each year, whether or not a letter or photos were included, etc. I also track where I sent them from.... In 1992, they were all mailed from London, and in 1993 they were all mailed from Hawaii.
By the way, my college friend Colleen Hammel's card is always the first one I receive, during the first week of December. She and Randy are the only college friends who still write once a year. I didn't make as many friends in college as I did in high school, which produced about a dozen regulars who have written off and on over the past couple of decades.
Some friends now send Christmas e-mails now rather than physical cards, which is fine but not for me. I've nothing against the Internet, obviously, but there's something appealing about keeping up an annual tradition that has been going on for a couple of centuries. I also enjoy receiving and reading those family form letters, although I don't like writing them. My previous attempts always ended up raving about trips I've enjoyed, but I don't think anybody is actually interested in reading about that. I only write about them on my website so I can remember them myself.

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You have my admiration. :-) I have high aspirations every year, but Christmas cards usually fall by the wayside. I've even designed/made my own...but can't seem to get them in the mail.
BTW...I like reading about your trips. Keeps me dreaming that maybe someday I'll get to do the same!
My notes say your last card to me was in 1993 and mine to you was in 2002... I guess we work better on the 'net. I'm currently in the middle of doing those cards and it looks like I might actually send less than ten this year, which is incredible.
No fun trips on the horizon as of now. I would like to return to London -- I dream about this nearly every night -- but I don't know how I'd pull that off at this point in time.
Merry Christmas, Dena!!
Nothing ever changes. I took my usual five hours and ended up with 23 cards to send. The only people I dropped were people who hadn't responded for at least four years. And even with that filter, I made a couple of exceptions.
Well, there's no reason not to write to all these people I still like very much or at least had fun times with in the past. I have the cards and the stamps, and lots of photos I like to share. So what was I thinking earlier anyway?
And now off to bed for maybe four hours of sleep if I'm lucky...
Hi Jerry,
It's Elizabeth (Mary's sister who lives in Portland) again. I am bowled over by your elaborate Xmas card tracking system. At first I thought you were kidding about that, but I guess not.
Good on you for sending cards. I manage to send cards out about once every five years and even then all I do is sign my name to them. Lame. Maybe next year.
Hope all is well!
Update that little mark by MY name, Mr. Colvin. I did it!! ;-) And even got it in the mail before Christmas. I'm giving myself a gold star for this year... :-)
Way to go, Dena! You're back in rotation for the next five years. You know, I really am a nut-bar to have this tracking system, and maybe even a super nut-bar to make a big deal about it on the internet. Maybe Jerry and blogs do not mix well together... (But at least I shamed you into sending me a card, ha).
Elizabeth: I hope the picture near the bottom of this page does not ruin your Curb Your Enthusiasm Marathon viewing experience (Season Six comes out on DVD next month!).
Merry Christmas!
Hmm, it's ten days later, Dena, and your card never did appear at our residence. Lost in the mail?
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